Amber romance

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So I'm pretty sure I failed at Amber's romance. I took a look at her in Shadowkeeper and there was something like, amberromance 3 which I seem to recall meant that it was over. It's not particulary suprising that I failed, ask any of my ex girlfriends, but I was kinda hoping for a do over. If it's not too late(we just left spellhold), is there any way to reset everything so I can try again? If it matters, I had Aerie and still do have Viconia in party. I shot em both down but it may have been too late, I'm not sure. Any help would be appreciated, thanks.